The Oscar Dilemma

“I think we are perfect for each other because you don’t like kids and I don’t need anymore kids,” he told me. “I can’t believe we matched. It’s like hitting the jackpot.”

At least we didn’t get married until he said, I’m not over my ex (over text). I think online dating sometimes brings out the evil inside us.

Ghosting is understandable, but mosting is cowardly.

As a software engineer I began to wonder, how can a dating app craft a good user experience for people with both good and bad intentions alike? It’s a dilemma because on the one hand a dating app wants as many active users as possible, but on the other hand, it’s a social responsibility to protect its users from accounts that are abusive, bullying, misogynous or fake.



Pinterest’s algorithm sucks, I’m on the explore page, it suggests me “Peacock Feather Tattoos” (I’ve searched that), “Lush Cosmetics” (I’ve pinned these), “Raccoon” (I love raccoons), and “Jesus Christ” (what?! I’ve been an atheist all my life, this has nothing to do with me)…

So I complained to a friend about it, and he said, “well, Pinterest knows your are going to hell, so it tries to save you by suggesting Jesus Christ :P